But the Lord said to Samuel, Look not on his appearance or at the height of his stature, for I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees; for man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.
When we choose the people with whom we think we want to be in relationship—whether work-related or personal—we often find later that our choices were not very wise. Ask God to give you "divine connections." He may choose relationships for you that you would never have chosen because you have preconceived ideas about what you want. Learn to look beyond the exterior of people and see their heart. Someone may look good outwardly and be a nightmare to be in relationship with. Another person may not appeal to you at first glance, and yet when you get to know that individual, he or she may turn out to be the best friend you ever had.
I was insecure and always wanted to be friends with the "popular people," but quite often I ended up getting hurt. I sought the approval of such people because I was filled with insecurity.
Wisdom always chooses now what it will be happy with later on. Don't live like there is no tomorrow, because tomorrow always comes.
Prayer of the Day: Lord, only You can see people's hearts and give me the wisdom to know the best relationships for me. I ask You to connect me with the right friends and associates, amen.
