Finding Hope After Losing a Loved One to Suicide

Navigate your way through grief–one day at a time.

Joyce Meyer – Nov 14, 2018
5 min read
Losing A Loved One To Suicide

The heartache that comes with losing a loved one to suicide is profound and often leaves survivors feeling lost, confused, and heartbroken. At Joyce Meyer Ministries, we understand the unique challenges that come with this type of loss, and we're here to offer support and guidance as you step onto the path to healing.

Our goal is to provide comprehensive and spiritual insights into understanding suicide loss, navigating the healing process, offering encouragement, moving forward with hope, helping hurting people through their grief, and sharing resources to further support the grief-stricken. Simply put, we want to share valuable information and practical tools that can assist you in coping with your loss and finding healing.


An Interview with Kay Warren

Losing a loved one is never easy. It is a painful journey that is even further complicated when a loved one takes their own life. This catastrophic grief is all too familiar to Kay Warren and her husband Rick, who lost their son, Matthew, to suicide in 2013. According to Kay, “You don’t ever get over it, you get through it.” In this interview she shares her painful story and offers encouragement to those who have had to say goodbye to a loved one through the tragedy of suicide.

   

Understanding the Impact of Suicide Loss

When a loved one is lost to suicide, the grief experienced can be overwhelmingly complex. Grieving a suicide often involves a mix of intense emotions, including profound sadness, anger, guilt, and confusion. The sudden and unexpected nature of suicide can leave survivors feeling shocked and traumatized, leading them to question what they could have done differently or blame themselves for not preventing the tragedy.

The repercussions of suicide on family and friends are often immense. It can strain relationships, disrupt family dynamics, and lead to feelings of isolation and misunderstanding. At Joyce Meyer Ministries, we understand these challenges and offer resources and support to provide comfort, understanding, and healing.

Right now, things may seem hopeless, but we want you to know that God loves you, He sees exactly what you’re going through, and He wants to help you in the midst of your pain. He desires to help you process the disappointment and anger. He wants to help you move forward from the painful emotions into a new place of peace.


Embracing the Healing Process After Losing a Loved One to Suicide

The journey to healing after losing a loved one to suicide can be long and challenging. One crucial strategy for healing is to allow yourself to grieve and process your emotions. Self-care, including adequate rest, nutritious meals, and engaging in activities that bring you joy, is also critical during this difficult time. Embracing community and staying connected for support is vital for the healing process. Surround yourself with people who empathize with your experience and can offer comfort and encouragement.

Healing takes time and patience, and it's essential to allow yourself to grieve and heal at your own pace. Grief is something everyone experiences at some point in life, and it’s vital to embrace grieving as a process that is necessary and healthy.

Most importantly, it’s extremely important to reach out to God! Pray and ask the Lord to speak to your heart about specific things He wants you to see and apply in your life. The Lord already has so many wonderful plans for your future, and all He wants you to do is believe Him and trust Him to work everything out for your good. As you do, God will take your grief and provide you with His supernatural comfort. He will help you to move forward into the great things He has planned, full of joy and full of hope, in His perfect timing.


Finding Support and Resources After Losing a Loved One to Suicide

In the aftermath of losing a loved one to suicide, it's crucial to find support and resources to help navigate the grieving process. Jeremiah 31:13(AMPC) says, …For I will turn their mourning into joy and will comfort them and make them rejoice after their sorrow. Matthew 5:4 also tells us, Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted (NKJV).

At Joyce Meyer Ministries, we encourage you to seek the Lord as well as these available resources. Remember, you are not alone—God is always with you—and there is help available to guide you through this devastating time.


Finding Hope After Losing a Loved One to Suicide

As you journey through the pain of losing a loved one to suicide, it's important to let go of negative emotions such as guilt, anger, and blame, and start embracing personal growth and resilience. By acknowledging and expressing your feelings in healthy ways, you can make room for healing. Grief can reshape our lives, and while the pain may never completely go away, we can learn to live with it and grow from it. By setting goals for the future while honoring the memory of our loved ones, we can find purpose and meaning in our own lives.

Psalm 34:18 (NLT) says, The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed. When we are hurting, God hurts with us.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, I encourage you to take a few moments and pray right now:

Father, I need You now. You say You love me and see exactly where I am…and in spite of how I feel, I choose to believe Your Word. In the face of all I am going through, I look to You for help. I need Your strength to deal with everything that feels too big for me right now. Help me to keep my eyes on You. Please make Yourself real to me…and encourage me for the road ahead. Help me experience Your love and presence in a tangible way. I give all that I am to You. In Jesus’ name, amen.


Supporting Others in Their Grief After Losing a Loved One to Suicide

When someone is grieving a suicide loss, it's essential to offer empathy, compassion, and support. Recognize that each person's grief journey is unique and may involve a wide range of emotions. Be patient, listen without judgment, and allow them to express their feelings openly and honestly.

Providing empathetic and compassionate care is essential when supporting someone through their grief. Moreover, educating others about suicide prevention and mental health can play a crucial role in preventing future tragedies. At Joyce Meyer Ministries, we offer a range of resources and support to help individuals navigate through their grief and find healing.

Additional Support Resources After Losing a Loved One to Suicide

If you've lost a loved one to suicide, it's crucial to seek support and resources to help you through the grieving process. Here are some recommended books, websites, and reading materials:

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention provides a wealth of information on suicide prevention and postvention.

American Association of Suicidology offers resources for suicide bereavement.

Alliance of Hope provides an online support community and resources for suicide loss survivors.

Joyce Meyer Ministries 7:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. ET 1-866-480-1528
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 988
Teen Suicide Hotline 310-855-4673
Veterans Crisis Line 988, Press 1
Deaf, Hard of Hearing Lifeline, call or text 988

Consider getting involved in raising awareness and reducing the stigma surrounding suicide to honor your loved one's memory. Options include participating in local suicide prevention walks or fundraisers, volunteering with organizations that provide support to individuals at risk of suicide and sharing your story to advocate for mental health awareness. If you find yourself struggling with overwhelming emotions or thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a mental health professional or a helpline for immediate assistance.

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