Let Go of the Dead Stuff

Have you ever pruned a tree in your yard? A few years ago, someone was helping my husband Dave and I prune one of our trees. There were times when he cut the branches back so far that I said to him, “There is nothing left. You have totally destroyed our tree!” But he said, “You just watch and see.” And sure enough, before long the tree was much better looking than it was before.

Just like trees need pruning from time to time, you and I need to be pruned or reshaped at different times in our lives. We may not enjoy the pruning process, but when it’s over, we’re much better off than we were before.

Jesus says, any branch in Me that does not bear fruit [that stops bearing] He cuts away (trims off, takes away); and He cleanses and repeatedly prunes every branch that continues to bear fruit, to make it bear more and richer and more excellent fruit (John 15:2 AMPC).

Stop Dragging “Dead Branches”

It’s good for us to stop and evaluate our lives sometimes and ask God to show us if there are things that need to be cut off because they are hindering our growth in our relationship with Him. Ask yourself: Am I dragging around “dead branches” in my life? Maybe it’s a bad relationship, an old wound from your past, or a negative attitude that keeps you from enjoying life to the fullest.

It would be nice if we could see what God sees and say, “Yes, God. Let’s get rid of that dead branch.” But many times, we’re too afraid to give up what we know for something new that we just can’t see or understand.

The truth is you can be miserable dragging those dead things around....or you can go through the pain of letting God “prune” them away. Even though it’s uncomfortable, the best thing you can do is let God prune you, because after the hard part is over, you will see some amazing results!

Deeper Root = More Fruit

God doesn’t want to see you struggle. He loves you so much that He will never give up on you. As we allow Him to speak into our lives, He teaches and trains us to be kind and gentle, peaceful and patient, loving and forgiving like Him. But we cannot develop that “fruit” on our own.

Jesus tells us in John 15:4, Just as no branch can bear fruit of itself without abiding in (being vitally united to) the vine, neither can you bear fruit unless you abide in Me.

In other words, we need to spend time with God.

Our relationship with God is about much more than going to church on Sunday and reading the Word as a religious duty. He wants a personal relationship with each of us.

When we stay connected to God through meaningful Bible study and prayer, we’re abiding in Jesus. God wants us to be so rooted and grounded in His love that nothing can shake us—so we’re able to bear good fruit in even the hardest, most difficult seasons of life.

Let Go of the Past

God has a good plan for your life. He wants to take you to the next level in your relationship with Him, but there are some things that He wants you to leave behind—past hurts, insecurities, or anything you look to for a sense of security other than God Himself.

The apostle Paul said, one thing I do [it is my one aspiration]: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the [supreme and heavenly] prize to which God in Christ Jesus is calling us upward (Philippians 3:13-14 AMPC).

Make a determined decision to let go of the past and press on to experience a fuller, richer, more abundant life in Christ.

Pray today: “God, I’m tired of dragging this heavy load around with me. I’m ready to let it go so I can get on with my life and experience a greater relationship with You. Help me to know that You love me and that You’ll work everything out for my good.”

If we will totally give ourselves to God, He will give us His best for us. It may not be what we thought we wanted, but it will be exactly what we need. And it will be greater than anything we could have asked for.